Are we really supposed to go 50/50 in relationships? Or is that just what culture tells us?In this episode of the Not By Might Podcast, we break down the difference between low effort and high effort men, what effort actually looks like in dating and marriage, and whether 50/50 is even the right goal.Is provision only financial?Does leadership mean control?What does effort look like in real life, not just on social media?We talk honestly about expectations, roles, respect, and what builds a healthy, God centered relationship. This one might challenge you.Let us know in the comments.Do you believe in 50/50 or something different?Subscribe for more conversations on faith, marriage, culture, and real life.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jemiandshalom/https://www.instagram.com/notbymightpodcast/Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5PlPrRJPLdnsrKW56QT6Q8?si=sCp1WGMqS0iD_KKjVzYIWQTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jemiandshalom #NotByMightPodcast #HighEffortMen #LowEffortMen #MarriageTalk #ChristianMarriage #DatingAdvice #RelationshipStandards #FaithAndMarriage #ModernRelationships #BiblicalMarriage #CouplesPodcast #BlackLove #MarriageConversation #RelationshipDebate