(keywords) (slightly edited version) Minor and major suffering, tricks, avoidance, dukkha plus plus, dreams, grief, frozen, tears, parent, emotions, parking, blissful, Four Noble Truths, true principles, upaya, ubai, skilful means, conundrums, miserable, grumpy, backlog, denied life, medicating, spiritual faculties, idealistic, bhava-tanha, vibhava-tanha, aggressive, deficit, forces for transformation, terrible-twos, projections, disillusionment, gentle approach, introspection, misperceive, too much, Ven. Myokyo-Ni, parami, mettabhavana, self-caring, threatening, default, whole-being awareness, recipe book, wound, mirror, modesty, weakness.