What Actually Is Selfishness:

Listening to Dhamma talks, agreeing and disagreeing, taking sides, appreciative awareness, sensitive receptivity, shared contemplation, resolution, generosity, moral philosophy, feeling investigation, loving kindness, empathy, learning from boredom, me and my way, contentment, unshakable, Mahamangala Sutta, victims, re-traumatizing, seeing selfishness, conceit, Ajahn Thate, 8 worldly winds, griefless, dustless, security, learning to lose.