My love,

A new episode of the Magic Divorce Club podcast is out today.

Ep 35: Why You Might Feel Stuck In Your Divorce

And it starts with a confession… I moved house recently. And in the weeks around the move, I forgot everything I teach.

I went back to my old habits. The ones that feel like productivity but aren’t. The ones that kept me exhausted and somehow getting less done despite more hours. The ones I’m pretty sure you recognise too.

This episode won’t give you the answer. But it will give you one question worth sitting with. One that I think might shine a light on something you haven’t quite noticed yet.

👉 Listen above or wherever you get your podcasts.

Have a listen and then please reply to this email - I’d love to hear what the question brings up.

You’ve got this. And I’ve got you.

Hannah XOX

PS The June workshop, Productivity for Divorce, is on 30th June. LUXE members, it’s included for you. More details coming on Friday.

My love,

This month’s Magic Divorce Club workshop is now ready to watch above.

We’re covering the legal side of divorce in 3 parts

* Why the legal stuff is so triggering in the first place, and what you can do about it

* How to find your voice and actually speak up for yourself, including a short ceremony to help you connect to your voice and what’s true for you.

* Exactly how I use AI as a buffer. A gatekeeper for your emotions, so your body doesn’t have to be the shock absorber for every message, every email, every bit of legal noise that comes your way.

👇There’s also an AI workbook, attached below the paywall, with the exact prompts I use.

If you’re not LUXE yet, you can watch the opening for free, and then either grab this workshop on its own here or upgrade to LUXE here:

Joining LUXE gives you this workshop plus the full library of monthly workshops, and Magic Mondays (live every Monday at 10am).

Next month’s workshop is one I’m genuinely excited about:

Productivity for Divorce.

Not to rush divorce, because often you can’t … but it is possible to use productivity tips, as unsexy as that might sound, to stop it taking over the rest of your life.

This is … How to contain it, move through the load with less dread, rejuvenate in the middle of it and protect your energy for your kids, your work, and you.

More on that soon.

I’d love to hear how you found today’s workshop so please do reply and tell me what you liked, what shifted for you and what you want more of.

As always, you’ve got this. And I’ve got you.

Hannah XOX

PS Here is today’s workbook for you to download:

Hi love,

This week’s Magic Divorce Club podcast is a little different as I’m sharing Part 3 of my free series, When Divorce Feels Like Too Much.

This is the session where I talk through the bigger Calm-First Method I use with divorcing mums who are tired of living in reaction mode.

Ep 34: How to stop living in reaction mode during divorce

Because it’s not just one message, handover, legal email or child wobble. It’s all of it.

Divorce has a way of pulling you back into urgency, panic, over-explaining, people-pleasing, shutting down, or trying to fix everything all while you feel completely unsafe.

In this episode, I’ll walk you through:

* why quick tools help, but repetition and support matter

* the Steady. Settle. Choose. method

* the 4 main trigger zones I see during divorce.

* why calm is not weakness or compliance

* why steadiness is what helps you make clearer decisions, protect your energy, and come back to yourself

» Watch above with the slides or listen wherever you get your podcasts.

If you watch this week’s episode and find yourself thinking, “I need the right kind of support,” enrolment is now open for The Calm-First Method for Divorcing Mums.

It’s my 10-week live programme for separated or divorcing mums who are in the thick of it and want to stop losing whole days and weeks to divorce triggers, so you can steady yourself, protect your energy and choose your next steps with more calm, dignity and self-trust.

You can read all the details here:

You’ve got this. And I’ve got you.Hannah XOX

Hi lovely,

Today’s podcast is about something I think so many women experience in divorce… myself included … but don’t always realise it’s happening.

When you’re trying to do all the “right” things, get all the right information, listen to the podcasts, ready the advice, talk to solicitors … then by the time you’re trying to make a good decision you’re already overwhelmed.

Then another email arrives.A handover is coming up.Your ex sends a message.

And suddenly your whole body goes into panic.

Your chest tightens.Your brain seems to be completely against you. You can’t think straight.Everything feels too much.

And then the really frustrating part?

The advice that was supposed to help becomes triggering too. There are just too many words, too many options, too many things to ‘get wrong’.

That’s what I’m talking about in today’s episode:

When advice stops being useful…

It’s not that you’re weak or dramatic or “not coping properly”.

It’s that your body is bracing before your brain has even caught up.

And this is exactly why I created my new free 3-part series:

When Divorce Feels Like Too Much

Part 1 is available now and walks you through what to do in the first 10 minutes after a trigger, so you’re less likely to lose the whole day to panic, spiralling, overthinking or shutdown.

Then Part 2 goes live tomorrow and we go deeper into how to stop divorce getting unlimited access to your nervous system, your sleep, your energy and your life.

» Listen to today’s podcast above or wherever you get your podcasts

» And then watch Part 1 here or save it for later:

You don’t have to keep living in reaction mode.

You’ve got this. And I’ve got you.Hannah XOX

PS Save the Date

Part 3 of When Divorce Feels Like Too Much is live on Wednesday 13th May at midday.

I’ll walk you through my Calm-First Method, and how it helps you steady yourself and settle the spiral, so you can choose your next steps with intention instead of living in constant reaction mode.

My love,

This week’s podcast is about something I’ve learned very clearly over the last year:

When you’re going through divorce, you usually do not need more advice first.

Ep 32: What Women Actually Need in Divorce, and It’s Not More Advice

In this episode, I’m sharing what I’ve learned about what women actually need in divorce.

I’ve also created something free for next week to celebrate Magic Divorce Club turning one! It’s called:

When Divorce Feels Like Too MuchA free 3-part series for divorcing mums

Part 1 goes live on Monday, so make sure you’re subscribed to the MDC here:

I’ll be sharing the details tomorrow.

What about you?

You may have been here a year now and never told me what’s really going on for you. So please do accept this invitation: this is your time, and i’d love to hear from you.

Imagine we’re sat over a coffee (oat chai, hot choc, whatever you fancy), then answer these 2 questions for me...

1. What is the moment in divorce that knocks you off centre fastest?2. When that happens, what do you most wish you had help with?

I’d really love to hear it in your words. It can be one line and it doesn’t need to be polished.

I know you may be here quietly reading and never usually reply, but you matter and I want to know what’s going on.

Thank you so much and I’ll get back to you, personally, asap (if you don’t hear from me, check your spam).

You’ve got this. And I’ve got you.Hannah XOX

PS Links from this episode:Magic Divorce Club / SubstackHow to divorce Sober

My love,

Here is the replay of this month’s Magic Divorce Club workshop:

What Happens to the House?

If the housing side of divorce has been making you feel overwhelmed, stuck, or scared of getting it wrong, this will really help.

Inside, I walk you through the emotional side first so you can feel steadier and clearer, and mortgage adviser, Suzie Martin, covers some of the practical questions that create the most fear.

I’ve added a workbook below so you can work through it in your own time. And please do just that - take your time, keep breathing and pick one next step.

LUXE members can watch the full replay above.

Not in LUXE yet?

Upgrade your subscription here to get access to this workshop, the workbook, plus the full workshop replay library:

LUXE includes 12 months of workshops and replays, so you can dip into the support when you need it most.

If you’d just like access to today’s workshop, you can do so here.

I’d love to hear how you get on, please do hit reply and tell me what you’ve decided your next step is. I reply to every email.

You’ve got this. And I’ve got you.

Hannah XOX

PS Contacting Suzie

Suzie has kindly offer a free hour to look at your individual mortgage circumstances. You can contact her here and just tell her you have come from the Magic Divorce Club.

PPS LUXE members, here is your workbook

My love,

Here’s this week’s Magic Divorce Club podcast episode:

Ep 31: It’s not really about the house

Why housing decisions in divorce feel so loaded, and what’s actually underneath them

If the house feels like the hardest part of divorce, you are not being dramatic because very often, the decisions you need to make aren’t actually about the house.

It is about what’s IN the house.

What the house represents.What it has held.What you think you might lose.

In this episode, I talk about why the house can carry so much emotional weight in divorce.

* Safety.

* Motherhood.

* Identity.

* Money.

* Grief.

* The future you thought you were going to have.

And WHY you might be feeling stuck.

I also talk about:

* why moving can feel far more unsettling in your body than you expect

* why staying is not always the safest option

* why selling is not failure

* why change can feel dangerous, even when it may actually be better for you

* why there can be different parts of you wanting different things at the same time

If where you’re going to live has been a hard issue for you, I think this episode will help you feel less alone with it.

Listen above or wherever you get your podcasts.

And if you are listening and thinking yes, this is exactly the part I’m stuck in, this month’s Magic Divorce Club workshop next Wednesday is here to help with both sides of it.

What Happens to the House?

Wednesday 29 April at 12pm UK

This is emotional support first, practical clarity second.

So not a huge overwhelming info dump.

A steadier space to help you work through both the practical questions and the emotional weight they are carrying.

You can reserve your place here:

Please note, this workshop is included for LUXE members, you can upgrade your membership here.

If decisions around the house feel huge, that because they are.

It’s so much more than just a house and you don’t have to figure it all out today.

You’ve got this. And I’ve got you.

Hannah XOX

PS Show notes

In this episode I mention:

* the shame triggers around motherhood - inspired by Brene Brown

* An earlier MDC episode:

* the earlier episode with Suzie on the practical side of the house question:

* This months’s workshop What Happens to the House? on Wednesday 29 April

My Love,

If decision making feels strangely hard right now, this week’s podcast is for you.

Ep 30: Why it feels so hard to make decisions in divorce

I’m talking about:

* why even simple decisions can feel huge

* why it doesn’t mean you’re bad at decisions.

* what happens when your body doesn’t feel safe,

* and how everything starts to feel urgent (spoiler… it’s NOT)

In this episode, I’ll help you understand why that happens and what to come back to instead, so you can find your next step without spiralling.

Listen above or wherever you get your podcasts.

And if the house is one of the decisions feeling especially heavy right now, don’t forget that this month’s workshop is all about your home and you are invited

Note: this workshop is free for LUXE members of the Magic Divorce Club.

What is the big (or little) decision you’re struggling with at the moment? Hit replay and let me know.

I love hearing from you and reply to every message.

You’ve got this. And I’ve got you.

Hannah XOX

PS Show notes from this episode

* How to Divorce Sober

* April’s What Happen’s to the House workshop - midday, 29th April (free for LUXE members)

My love,

If home feels like the most overwhelming part of divorce, you are not imagining it.

For so many women, this is where panic can kick in fast.

* Where am I going to live?

* What happens with the kids?

* Will I be forced to move?

* Can I afford to stay?

* What if I make the wrong decision and regret it later?

That kind of uncertainty can send your whole body into alarm.

And then… it’s very easy to start thinking you need to decide everything immediately.

You don’t.

This week on the podcast, I’m talking with my friend Suzie Martin, from Smart-in Mortgages, about the house side of divorce and why this part feels so loaded.

We talk about:

* why housing uncertainty can feel so destabilising

* what people often misunderstand about staying in the family home

* why rushed decisions made in fear can make everything feel harder

* what it means to slow down, get the facts, and stop assuming the worst

Rather than a deep-dive into mortgages. It’s a steadier place to start, to hear a few important truths, and stop spiralling before you make any big decisions about the house.

Huge thanks to Suzie for helping us wade through this tricky and complex part of Divorce!!

If this is the part of divorce that has been keeping you up at night, I think this episode will help.

“What Happens to the House?” - April’s workshop

If you want more support with this, I’m running a live workshop with Suzie on 29th April » called What Happens to the House?

It’s for divorcing mums who feel anxious and overwhelmed about housing uncertainty and need calm-first support, simple clarity, and one practical next step.

We’ll look at:

* what happens if one person wants to stay

* what happens if neither of you can afford it

* what lenders are actually looking at, in simple language

* how to create safety for you and your kids, even when everything feels up in the air

As always, this workshop is free for LUXE members of the MDC and you can upgrade your subscription here:

(be sure to choose the ‘LUXE’ option, which is currently £250 for a whole year’s worth of support!)

Or you can get your ticket for £37 here.

For now, start here with the podcast.

You do not have to solve the house today.You just need to feel safe enough to take your next step.

You’ve got this. And I’ve got you.

Hannah XOX

PS Show notes from this episode

* Get in touch with Suzie

* Suzie mentions: Halifax mortgage borrowing calculator and NatWest how much can I borrow calculator

* How to Divorce Sober

* April’s What Happen’s to the House workshop - midday, 29th April (free for LUXE members)

My love,

This week on the podcast, I’m talking about something that can feel deeply unsettling during divorce:

Your home no longer feels like home

Maybe everything is changing… or it’s just about to.Maybe you’re moving, waiting, blending, sorting, bracing.

Whatever it looks like for you, this kind of instability can really take its tole on our bodies.

When your home has been destabilised by divorce, it can be hard to think clearly. or rest properly.

Ep 28: How to create calm when your home doesn’t feel settled yet.

In episode 28 of the Magic Divorce Club Podcast, I’m sharing 3 tools to use when your Homelife feels unstable.

Simple things that can help you feel steadier, safer, and more anchored, even when life still feels very up in the air.

I also talk about:

* why home is about more than the physical space around you

* what children often pick up on before we’ve even said a word

* how to create more calm, even without certainty

If home feels tender, messy or uncertain right now, this one is for you.

Listen above or wherever you get your podcasts: Apple | Spotify

I’d love to hear what you think and if you give this a try. Hit reply and tell me. I love to hear from you and always respond.

You’ve got this. And I’ve got you.

Hannah XOX

PS Links mentioned in this episode:

* Magic Divorce Club on Substack

* Magic Mondays

* What Happens to the House? April’s workshop (free for LUXE members)

* How to Divorce Sober