Magnet For Love

Do you have a relationship with a younger man? Are you interested in a relationship with a man who is a lot younger than you? Why does it work or why does it not work? Suzanna answers all your questions on cub-cougar dating and relationships.

About Suzanna Mathews

Suzanna is a self-confessed "Love Junkie" and an expert in first impression management and gender communication, specializing in soulful-spiritual relationships, intergenerational dating, and high net worth relationships. She is also a keynote speaker, wedding officiant, and image consultant. She recently authored a book entitled Revising Mrs. Robinson in which she explores personal and cultural responses to romantic relationships between older women and younger men.

Suzanna believes that "love favors the brave" and is dedicated to helping people amplify their vibration in order to better attract, give, and receive love. She works one-on-one and in small group settings using a blend of marketing & branding strategies and tools for personal growth and self-improvement.

Suzanna has been featured on radio, TV, and podcasts across the globe and has contributed to digital and print articles on a variety of dating topics. Additionally, she works as a communications coach, assisting executives and business leaders to prepare, polish, and perfect their public presentations and interpersonal communication skills. She's a member of the National Association of Women Business Owners, the Women Speaker's Association, and the Matchmaker's Alliance.

Show Highlights

• What a relationship with a younger man is like
• Why is it fulfilling for you and for him
• Do cub-cougar relationships really work?
• How to create a successful cub-cougar relationship

Connect with Suzanna

Website: http://thedatemaven.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheDateMaven/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheDateMaven

Thanks for joining me this week on the Magnet For Love Podcast. If you any questions you would like to ask or have a topic you would like us to talk about. Write to me [email protected].

If you are looking to go from this is "never happening for me" to falling in love with the right guy for you. I want you to go ahead and book your complimentary 45 minute Find Love Today session with me, here  we will dig deep into what is holding you back from finding love, share with you what you can do about and the strategies I have to help you find love today. Remember to do this as soon as possible as I book out quickly. Go to http://bit.ly/Findlovetoday to book yours.

See you next week on Magnet for love podcast, helping you succeed in love by sharing insights, aha's and giving you the tips, tools and scripts to fall in love.

About Allen Vaysberg

Allen Vaysberg is a Recalibration Expert and creator of the SEAMLESS method who facilitates people's transition from unfulfilled and stressed to doing

what they love and being at peace.  He writes and speaks on life purpose, career change, work- life balance and the recalibration process, and runs online programs helping people re-calibrate their lives.  He lives with his ever patient wife Janice and their two children in Chicago. For more information and practical inspiration visitwww.thenewlovetriangle.com

Allen's Book

The New Love Triangle is a life changer! Short enough to be read in one sitting this book is a powerhouse for facilitating lifelong transformation. Bestselling author Allen Vaysberg is authentic and funny while masterfully weaving in concepts with practical application making it easy to add love to every part of life. You'll come away with a new perspective and simple action steps for loving yourself, others, and your day!

To get your copy of The New Love Triangle go here.

Connect with Allen

Website: http://thenewlovetriangle.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thenewlovetriangle

Twitter: https://twitter.com/AllenInspirer

Thirty years happily married Midori knows a thing or two about living happy ever after and keeping the love in your relationship. She shares the secrets to having a kickass marriage from brain science to dealing with arguments and living as a team.

Midori Verity is an Energizing Relationship Coach, best-selling author to, ‘Secrets to a Kickass Marriage’, host of ‘The Ultimate Relationship Show’, and co-host to the ‘Moxie No.5’ show.

Together for nearly 30 years, Midori and her husband have figured out the formula to a wonderful marriage and life.  She has spent more than a decade studying interpersonal relationships, and cognitive and behavioral psychology. She uses breakthrough techniques in brain science to lead individuals to stomping out perceived limitations in order to achieve extreme heights and goals. Midori combines this knowledge to teach couples how to work together to create a more passionate, thriving, and bonded relationship.

Midori has a Bachelor of Arts degree in Communications, with a focus on Sociology from the University of California, Davis.

Secrets to a Kickass Marriage is a book for couples who want to breakthrough in their relationship to live their best life, filled with excitement,love, and success. In this inspiring guide, relationship expert and coach, Midori Verity, provides real-life advice and simple exercises to help you:

• Achieve the life and relationship you’ve dreamed of. NOW!
• Create positive communication and behaviors, opening the door to greater happiness
• Re-ignite passion and take sex to a new level
• Feel sexier and more confident

You’ll be motivated to press the reset button on your relationship and achieve the life you’ve always wanted…with a ‘kickass’ mindset! To get your copy of Midori book Secrets To A Kickass Marriage go here.

• The small things matter, keep an attitude of gratitude
• Wake up everyday thinking about what your partner has done that makes your life better?
• Perpetual arguments and solvable arguments
• 69% of arguments in relationships are perpetual
• Own your imperfections and work on your imperfections, do this and your partner is going to appreciate you more, do it together be a team
• Deal with the small stuff
• Turning in is acknowleding what your partner says and giving a positive response, so that your partner knows that they are important to you

Website: http://www.midoriverity.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MidoriAVerity/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/midoriverity

Have you ever considered hiring a matchmaker. Good Ereseh is a matchmaker and a coach and he shares with you what you need to consider when looking to work with a matchmaker and how they can help you find love.

Good Ereseh is Nigeria’s first certified matchmaker in Africa, a relationship coach, leader and mentor in the love industry. He holds degrees in both Biology and Computer Science. He focuses on love and relationship from the Biological and Psychological aspect to help single meet their potential matches with deep connection of values and personality. Apart from being a matchmaker he holds series of relationship coaching and matchmaking events where he helps single and dating people achieve their desired relationship goals. Good Ereseh is married to Mary and they are both blessed with two kids at the moment.

• How does matchmaker know you enough to pick you the right partner?
• The matchmaker finds a match to the criteria you are looking for
• It is best to have a matchmaker who is also a coach
• Most times clients want to date anyone who is available
• Find a matchmaker with a high success rate

Website: http://www.elitenig.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ereseh

Twitter: https://twitter.com/goodereseh

Want to know how men choose their wife? What makes you wife material instead of girlfriend material? How can you tell if your new relationship is going to progress into something more? Daniel Bates reveals all.

Daniel Bates is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor who works with families dealing with violence, substance abuse and legal issues. He also helps couples who are struggling with relational and intimacy issues. Daniel loves to write and think critically about mental health issues. He's passionate about spending time with his wife and daughters, connecting with friends and getting lost in a good book. Daniel also writes for two online magazines: mum.info and familyshare.com. You can find links to Daniel’s books, read his blog, and view and purchase his paintings at his website danielbates.com

• Being single is full of insecurity & self-doubt and guys handle it differently
• You got to know what you are looking for
• Where guys go wrong is they are looking for women who are just hot
• Guys feel tremendous pressure to look good in society, have status
• Men are looking for long-term relationships too
• If you keep it at surface level you are going to always have a girlfriend and not a wife
• If the guy really wants to get to know you, he wants to know the good & the bad. He will accept both
• Find a woman who challenges you and doesn't just agree with you, find the woman who makes you a better man

Check out the blog here: http://www.danielbates.co/how-to-find-a-wife-and-not-a-girlfriend/

Website: danielbates.co

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/danielbates.co/?ref=hl

Twitter: https://twitter.com/HdShrnkInc

Check out Daniels other episode -Wish Your Guy Would Initiate More? here.

What are boundaries and why are they so important to you? You probably have heard about boundaries before, but you struggle to reinforce them with loved ones or those that are close to you. Not setting boundaries can be very costly to your well being. Pamela knows all about boundaries, about why they are important, how to communicate your boundaries in a loving way and get the respect and love you deserve.

The High Priestess of Love, Pamela Cummins, can assist you in your love life, relationships, self-growth, and dream interpretation. She works with Angels and Guides and uses her psychic abilities of clairaudience, clairsentience, and clairvoyance to shine the light on your path. Her unique coaching and mentoring skills gives you the manifestation toolbox to achieve your goals. Pamela’s clients refer to her as the “Musical Psychic” because she often receives messages in the form of song lyrics. You can read her two monthly columns in Bellesprit Magazine and listen to her radio show “The Love Channel Show.” She is the author of Psychic Wisdom on Love and Relationships, Insights for Singles: Steps to Find Everlasting Love, and the free eBook Pamela’s Love Collection. Learn more at her website www.pamelacummins.com and http://www.learndreaminterpretation.com/

• Say No to what doesn't feel right
• Your feelings tell you when something is off such as I am not feeling heard, I am not feeling respected or I am not feeling safe
• If people are mistreating you, you need to look within yourself
• If you are afraid they are going to leave you because you set a boundary, then Pamela shares with you what to do
• Sometimes you need to make a boundary with someone more than once for them to get it
• If you make a boundary stick to it

I have two free gifts on my website, "Discover the 3 F's of Love" and "Pamela's Love Collection" an eBook. You can get your free gifts here http://www.successfulrel.com/free-gifts/

Website: http://www.successfulrel.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Pamela-Cummins-Author/140184366053125

Twitter: https://twitter.com/RevPamela

We all have been through breakups and they can be hard, sad and make you want to give up on men and love. Lauren shares her true and honest story of what is like to experience one breakup after another. Two failed marriages and a controlling ex boyfriend who was clearly not good for her. Lauren and I discuss the journey to love. Do you need to break up with your man?

Lauren Jean is a self-development freak, mum, proud trader joes crew member, podcaster, coach,and author. She is here to share her obsession with life experiences and stories to help you rock your life, to help you learn more about yourself to not only help you, but help your kids and the people you love. She wants you to stop putting up with bs and ignoring your feelings, get your life right, the way YOU want it.

Currently she has a focus on helping other coaches grow their business through podcast coaching and development.

As a single mum of an 8 year old with a full time career she loves, plus her online business that is growing, she is here today to let you know that YOU can do whatever in life you feel you were meant to do, but you must first know you are capable.

• Lauren and I share our personal story of our bad ex’s and how we both had a lucky escape
• Two failed marriages, a controlling boyfriend who seemed sweet and 4 years single
• Don’t just go along with things, because this is what happens
• When love costs you your health and well being
• Watch out for the red flags, can you see the signs in this conversation?

Website: https://laurenjeanthemommascoach.wordpress.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/561128347358434/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/ljsomma

Are you single wondering if you should date someone with a kid? Are you a single parent looking for love? Maybe you’re dating someone with a kid and you have not been introduced yet? Maybe you have a child of your own and you are wondering when is a good time to let the boyfriend/partner meet your little one?

What if you both have kids from previous marriages, how is that going to work? Do blended families work? What happens if the ex is bitter? Will this make your life complicated? To answer all these questions I have with me Melissa Marks who knows all too well what it is like to fall in love when you and your partner have kids.

Melissa is an entrepreneur of a successful cleaning business for the last ten years, and also the host of the Blended family podcast, a weekly show about the many challenges and struggles today's blended families face. Melissa has recently started coaching blended families for more one on one interaction.  She has had a blended family of her own for the past 9 years, which consists of her and her partner, their four children, her mother in law, and three dogs. Melissa and her family currently reside in Florida.

• We met in McDonalds
• Always dealing with the ex-partner
• Blending parenting styles and allowing time for kids to blend from different families
• Women are the ones who tend to hold on to grudges and anger longer, do you agree?
• Using the children when really you are trying to get at your ex
• Melissa shares tips on how to adjust to your new life and make it work for you

Website: http://www.blendedfamilypodcast.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/blendedfamilypodcast/?fref=ts

Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/1blendedfamily

 I just had to share this message with you today. You don't have to be perfect to get what you want in life. Two days ago, I got an email from a lady who said, "Look, I really don't want to follow your material anymore. I can't stand your spelling and your grammar." I was like, "Ooh okay." She does not know that I have battled from a very young age with my English and my grammar.

When we were kids growing up, my parents always said “my younger sister was the smart one and I was the practical one”. I took that on as my truth....that I was not good at academic things and I was going to struggle through life. When I worked with horses I believe, because my grammar was not strong that I was no good and didn't have the right stuff to do an administrative role. I could only work outdoors with animals. 

I had a client once who was told her boobs where too small by a guy when she was in her early twenties. She took that message as, "I'm not attractive to men." For this reason she struggled with men for years. Once we go to the root of the problem. My client let go of this non-serving belief and found love. 

I know when you're listening to this video there's something you're thinking about yourself right now that makes you feel you're not perfect is some way. Not good enough to have a guy who's going to treat you well, make you feel good, that's really attracted to you, you're really attracted to him and you're excited about. 

I can tell you, if you don't fully love yourself, if you don't think you have the right clothes, if you think you're not the correct weight, you'll find it impossible to get what you want. I want you to let it go because I can tell you, sitting here right now, seeing the results that people I work with get, seeing the results in my life, that this belief is not serving you.

I'm in a loving relationship; I'm writing blogs for a company called YourTango. They're a big company, syndicating my blogs to other big companies, and if I let this one woman who said, "Oh, I'm not going to follow your stuff anymore because you have bad grammar.", then I've made a big mistake. She does not know the battle I had internally to get to where I am today, and you have the same message for you. If somebody in your life makes you feel less than what I want you to do today is forget about that and do what you need to do anyway and go get that great guy.

Because you don’t have to be perfect to find love, you just need to get going.

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Exploring where you are not living consistently with what you say your beliefs are: if you say you believe in an abundant universe but are struggling financially; or, you believe in well-being as your divine right but have long term unaddressed health or bodily issues; basically, ANYWHERE that you’re not being a living demonstration of the grace and love of an abundant universal Source, you are not in the flow.

As a Clarity Coach, Flora weaves together her years as a professional attorney and couples mediator, hard money investor, energy healer, transformation seminar leader, and Tantra educator to bring rigorous compassionate honesty, earning her nick-name as a "Warrior for Truth.”  She provides a loving safe space for her clients and students to discover the triumph of their precious human spirit over any earthly limitations, habits and challenges. Having successfully triumphed herself over financial limitations and physical anxiety, endocrine and fertility challenges, marital infidelity and living with covert addiction, Flora’s deepest desire is to now help others find their way from any struggles or limitations to the experience of ease and flow, and even grace … to really support others in being deeply healthy, happy, clear and at peace — mentally, emotionally, physically and in relationship.

She is the creator of Transcendent Healing body-mind clearings and BreatheLifeNow.com; co-founder of Conscious Connecting tantric experience for Couples and Singles; Best-selling author of Succeeding Through Doubt, Fear and Crisis available on Amazon.com and here; and her new Kindle single "Awakening Thru Infidelity" is available for purchase here.  All the support Flora provides with her consulting is intended for connecting deeper -- to your own truth, to your inner wisdom and grace, and to others in a divinely present way that heals past hurts, patterns and even “addictions," and allows for the experience of whole-hearted connection, abundance, joy and peace.

• Everyone struggles in one big area of their life
• We can not deeply connect with others if we are not deeply connected with our true self
• Take a breath and drop out of the mind thinking, go into the heart, pelvis....
• Connecting with yourself lets you be real
• Good question to ask yourself-How much of me am I sharing with this person?

Website: http://www.breathelifenow.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/flora.schule

Twitter: https://twitter.com/Desert_Clarity