In this episode, we look at Proverbs' contrast between the person who is faithful in spirit and the talebearer who "reveals secrets," and we examine what that says about your character, your friendships, and your trustworthiness before God.

(00:45) Proverbs 20:19

(05:45) Proverbs 11:13

In this episode, we unpack Song of Songs 1:7, examining the woman’s longing to see her beloved, how that longing reflects godly desire, and the lessons it gives for pursuing love with care and honor.

(01:26) The Ache That Can’t Wait: Longing for Their Presence

(04:58) Clarifying the Line Between Holy Desire, Fluctuating Feelings, and Dangerous Attraction

(10:51) Longing Done Right: Pursuing Their Presence With Wisdom, Modesty, and Honor

In this episode, we discuss how obedience to God’s Word increases attraction toward the right people while diminishing attraction for those who are not right for us. We also explore how sin and disobedience can misguide our affections, leading our hearts astray.

(00:18) How Your Sanctification Will Increase Proper Attraction or Kill Improper Attraction

(01:58) Why Laziness and Lack of Mission Misplace and Misguide Your Attractions

(03:31) How Honoring Your Parents Redirects and Shapes Your Attractions

(04:45) How Pursuing Godliness Refines Your Romantic Desires

(06:10) How the Idolatry of People, Romance, and Being “In Love” Destroys Healthy Attraction

(08:53) Fear and Worry: How Unnecessarily Keeping Your Guards Up Stunts Your Love Life

(09:21) How Discernment and Wisdom Protect Your Heart from the Wrong Spouse

(09:59) Eavesdropping and Covetous Comparison: The Silent Killers of Love

(10:37) Pessimism and Ungratefulness: The Subtle Poison That Destroys Healthy Love

(11:17) Anger and Attraction: How Your Temper Can Harm Love

(12:09) How Submission to Your Husband Strengthens Attraction and Deepens Affection

(13:40) Loving Christ First: How It Transforms Your Romantic Heart

(15:00) How Sexual Sin and Sinful Arousal Significantly Distort Your Romantic Desires

(19:24) Why True Desire Grows Through Purity, Not Immodesty and Sexual Temptation

(20:22) How Sin Makes You Less Attractive

(21:17) Beauty Redefined: Christlikeness as the Ultimate Attraction

(21:57) Song of Songs: The Secret to Lasting Attraction? Godliness

(24:20) Why Chasing Attraction Should Never Be Your First Priority

In this episode, we look at a forgotten story of Moses, where he rescued seven women from danger. In this event, we see the great virtues of chivalry and sacrificial masculinity on display in the life of Moses, the faithful servant of God.

In this episode, we unpack how the Bible warns about unhealthy nostalgia in Ecclesiastes 7:10.

(00:46) Unhealthy Nostalgia

(02:16) Why We Romanticize the Past

(04:14) What This Tendency Reveals About Our Hearts

(05:28) Real-Life Application: Relationship Nostalgia

(09:46) Final Warnings and Remedies

In this episode, we explore Psalm 112:7–8 to see how the righteous are marked by fearlessness—and how that courage should shape our mindset toward the future trials headed our way.

In this episode, we explore the Shulamite woman’s declaration, “I am black but lovely,” in Song of Songs 1:5, examining how she balances confidence and humility. We discuss how her words are not rooted in pride but in an honest self-perception that rises above cultural beauty standards and insecurities. Through her example, we uncover a biblical perspective on beauty, identity, and true confidence.

In this episode, we discuss the importance of genuine attraction and avoiding peer pressure when considering a romantic relationship. We’ll also talk about how to discern when it’s wise to move forward and when to trust the counsel of others.

(02:00) The Reputation That Draws

(03:07) Desiring the One You Marry

(05:54) Romantic Peer Pressure Towards Bad Influences

(06:42) Romantic Peer Pressure Towards Positive Influences

(08:52) Attraction Can Grow Over Time

(10:52) No Obligation to Try Romantic Pursuits

(13:03) When to Trust the Counsel of Others

(16:18) 3 Crucial Questions Before Pursuing a Relationship

In this episode, we dive into Song of Songs to explore the two types of romantic attraction. We discuss how the woman’s longing for her beloved reveals the significance of both outward appeal and inner virtue in a relationship.

(00:35) Songs of Songs Overview

(01:28) Two Types of Attractions

(03:16) Outward Attraction

(05:18) Physical Affection

(08:45) Intoxicating Love

(10:15) Cologne

(10:57) Inward Attraction

(13:07) Godly Reputations

In this episode, we uncover how the forbidden woman uses flattery and smooth words to entice, and why Proverbs repeatedly warns against her seductive speech.