The script that runs your day—“I’m fine”—might be the very thing keeping you stuck. We open with the familiar chaos, the apologies, the late-night scrolling, and then challenge the hidden beliefs that fuel it: that caring for yourself is selfish and that it’s too late to change. What follows is both honest and practical: research on parental burnout and child outcomes, a candid look at how overgiving teaches the wrong lessons at home, and clear ways to make self-care a strategic act that strengthens your family rather than stealing from it.

We go deeper on the “too late” myth with data, stories, and real-world examples—from career changes in the late 30s and 40s to creators and founders who didn’t bloom until 50, 60, or beyond. Misty shares why midlife is an edge, not a penalty: you know your values, you’ve built resilience, and your skills transfer. We talk about the surprising advantages mature workers bring, the energy that new learning brings to your relationships, and how modeling growth can transform your home from a place of management to a culture of mentorship.

If you’ve been living by default, this is your nudge toward intentional design. You’ll walk away with boundary scripts, small shifts that create momentum, and a fresh way to see your time and energy as resources to steward. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs the reminder, and leave a review to help others find the show. Ready to reclaim your identity beyond roles and start building the life you actually want? Join the priority list for our free three-day virtual event and take the first step today.

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