The first step to making the most out of life is to decide what it is that you want to accomplish. Know what it is that you want to do and go after it. The second is to expect the most out of life. Life is here to serve you and you must expect it too or else life will just pass you by in the blink of an eye. The next step is to slow down and live your life. Stop rushing through life thinking that you are missing something. The only thing you are missing is your own life. Fourth, is that rules are meant to be broken. Why should you just follow the rules without questioning their validity first? Regret nothing in life. You cant go back and change. You can't get a do over. SO go forward and embrace who you are. Lastly, you are not alone. You have people around you who will support you and keep you going, Keep those people close.