It’s about time we lift everyone up…We need one of these…Moving to Hawaii IS NOT EASY…it’s going to be one of the HARDEST THINGS you ever do…and once you get here things get HARDER! We have told everyone that we don’t sugarcoat things so we are sure many ARE or WILL be dealing with having a hard time here in Hawaii…

Overall the SAME 5 POINTS reach the surface at some point and it snowballs from there:

1.) HOW CAN I AFFORD TO LIVE IN HAWAII

2.) WHY CAN’T I FIT IN HERE IN HAWAII

3.) I MISS FAMILY AND FRIENDS FROM HOME

At 3 you enter the SELF DESTRUCT phase of leaving Hawaii.

4.) PLAYING THE DEFEATIST ATTITUDE AND BLAME GAME

5.) COMING UP WITH EXCUSES ON WHY HAWAII ISN’T RIGHT and WHY YOU NEED TO LEAVE

Trust me…Bruce and I have seen this again and again…this is the cycle of coming and going here in Hawaii and it’s about a YEAR PROCESS for most…If you make it to year two…you are probably SAFE…you broke the barrier