September 16, 2025

Making the Least Worst Decision

16 minutes

Have you ever been told that your childlessness was a “choice”—when in reality it was anything but simple?

In this episode of Childless and Moving Onward, host Gail Miller unpacks the painful misconceptions wrapped up in the word “choice.” Through her own story and heartfelt reflections, Gail reveals how what looks like a decision from the outside is often an act of survival in the face of limited, unfair, and deeply painful options.

Together, we’ll hold space for the grief and resilience that come with these experiences, and challenge the narratives that dismiss or minimize them.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why “choice” is often a misleading word in childlessness

How painful realities can be mistaken for simple decisions

The hidden weight of judgment placed on childless women

Why survival, not preference, shapes many paths forward

How compassion opens space for understanding and grace

If you’ve ever felt misunderstood or judged because of assumptions about your childlessness, this episode is here to remind you: your story matters, your pain is real, and your resilience deserves to be seen.

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Full transcript and more: https://pathonward.com/75-making-the-least-worst-decision/

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