Malice is a form of emotional abuse typically employed by people without good communication skills, an inability to express a high level of empathy, and avoidance of conflict resolution. Keeping malice appears to be deeply ingrained in our culture, such that it is acceptable to shut somebody out as a way of punishment. A malicious husband or wife, because they cannot prevail over their spouse, or they have been insulted, offended, or have been deprived of their coveted ego massage, continues to harbour enmity towards their spouse, and the flames of anger and acrimony consume the love they share. This audio lecture explains pointers to narcissistic tendencies and how to handle malice in "loverland", depending on your unique situation. Listen, learn, and enjoy, as you edit your Youniverse!