"I would flex, but I like this shirt"

This is written across a tee shirt my children bought me for Christmas. They have an ironic sense of humor.

My many tee shirts neatly folded in front of me, I am trying to rationalize the quantity. How many tee shirts does one man need?

Like everyone, I have my insecurities. There are many. However, for many years, I have felt entirely comfortable in describing myself as a man.

I am not a boy.