In this episode we discussed the often-asked question about how to manage chaos within a relationship. We touch on the subjects of soulmates, the therapeutic separation, love addiction and love avoidance, how to deal with intrusive thoughts, the Four Horsemen of the Marital Apocalypse, boundary violations, the benefits of support groups such as 12 steps, the on-again, off-again relationship cycles, the Avoidant and codependents, and the love addiction dance, and other tools for managing chaos in a relationship