Family dynamics can be one of the most emotional and challenging parts of wedding planning - especially when parents or close family members are separated.

In this week’s Wedding Tip Wednesday, Jenny shares expert, compassionate advice on how to manage separated parents and family members on your wedding day so that everyone feels comfortable and your day stays stress-free.

Drawing on over 22 years of wedding experience, Jenny explains how early communication, clear boundaries and thoughtful planning can prevent tension and awkward moments.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why having early conversations with separated parents is essential

• How to handle ceremony seating when parents aren’t together

• Practical tips for managing family photographs without causing discomfort

• Why neutrality is your best friend on the wedding day

• How to use a trusted point person to manage seating and logistics

• What to consider for speeches, dances and traditions when families are separated

• How to avoid surprises that can lead to stress or conflict

• Why their relationship is not your responsibility

Jenny also shares real-life examples from weddings she’s photographed, highlighting what works best, and what to avoid, when navigating complex family situations.

If you’re planning a wedding with separated parents or blended families, this episode will help you approach the day with confidence, kindness and clarity.

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