This episode reframes manners as training wheels for the heart, suggesting that social etiquette is not a set of hollow rules but a necessary scaffolding for moral development. The text outlines a three-stage journey—copying, understanding, and choosing—where individuals move from mindless mimicry to recognizing manners as practical tools for maintaining social trust and order. By practicing these behaviors even before we feel them, we engage in behavioral prototyping, using outward actions to eventually build inward muscle memory for kindness and empathy. Ultimately, the source argues that manners are the infrastructure of character, allowing us to act our way into becoming virtuous people who prioritize the safety and cohesion of the community over selfish impulses.