Episode 1: "The Rules We Follow Without Knowing Why" This episode explores the fundamental nature of manners as invisible social technology. Maya Chen examines what manners actually are—rules, rituals, and signals that reduce friction in group living—and distinguishes them from etiquette, morals, and ethics. The episode investigates how manners function universally across all cultures while varying wildly in execution, from eye contact norms to personal space expectations. It traces how people learn these unwritten codes through childhood correction, observation, and lifelong calibration, constantly adjusting to new contexts like workplaces and relationships. The episode concludes by examining enforcement mechanisms: the look, gossip, social exclusion, and the internal guilt that makes people self-police even when nobody's watching. Manners emerge as the system humans created to organize group life—impossible to escape, constantly evolving, and deeply embedded in daily behavior.
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