Finding peace, love, coziness and contentment in your marriage again may seem impossibly out of reach, but it’s quite possible- it’s beautifully rewarding, and results come about much faster than you might think.  Here’s the basic framework...

Ok Summer, I know about all that kind of stuff and I’m always trying to do it.  I try to be nice to myself and tell myself to think positive thoughts.  I try to be nice to him and give him what he wants and tell him what I want and I try to solve problems and it never helps.  We’re still just in the muck and mire of a “meh” relationship and it’s like every interaction is just giving me more and more of what I don’t want. And I  have to build a thicker and thicker fortress around my feelings to preserve the illusion that everything’s ok, but in reality I feel like I’m running on a treadmill, not going anywhere and all I’m getting is tired. And I have to choke down the question that keeps trying to surface, the question that says, “Is this what the rest of my life is going to look like?” Because that question exhausts my energy and when my six year old asks for more mini wheats I have nothing left to put in his bowl.  I am running on empty. Out of hope.

So your days are bursting at the seams with fruit snacks, laundry detergent, empty toilet paper rolls and everyone’s demands, and the only thing you have to show for it is a verizon bill and sharpie marks on your couch.

I know you’re already doing everything you have the bandwidth to do.

But if you have

🗝Another set of eyes on your problems, and processes, (a “support ninja” as clients have said) who can call out the blind spots your conditioned brain is striving to keep blacked out

🗝A PROVEN pathway in which one step logically follows another and you can see the promised cheesecake coming after the kale

🗝Resources GUARANTEED to effect major mindset shifts including highly personalized guided visualization audio tracks clients have called “amazing”, “really special”, and “loss for words to even describe it,”

Finding sweet connection with your husband again becomes a joyful, nurturing boulevard of self-discovery, full of AHA’s you can never unlearn.

If you’re ready to step off that downer of a treadmill and build a happy marriage without couples counseling, he said, she said and rehashing problems, just message me I’M READY on instagram and I’ll block out two hours for us to start mapping out your bliss.

You deserve all the love and happiness you can hold.  

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