Birthdays can stir up more than cake cravings ... they can bring big questions about purpose, milestones, and self-worth. In this bonus birthday episode of The Luminous Life Podcast, Erika sits down with Marcella as she turns 30 and reflects on how far she’s come.

From birthday anxiety to self-discovery, dating herself, and learning to trust her own path, Marcella shares the mindset shifts that helped her move from comparison to confidence. Erika brings her signature warmth, humor, and “big sister” energy to the conversation — and together they remind us that your 30s (and every decade after) can be your best chapter yet.

✨ What we cover in this episode:

How Marcella made peace with birthdays (and why 30 feels different)

Letting go of society’s “formula” for success

Dating yourself and learning to love yourself deeply

Why trusting yourself is the ultimate birthday gift

Manifesting joy, fulfillment, and meaningful work in your 30s and beyond

Whether you’re turning 30, 40, 50 or simply navigating a season of change, this episode is your reminder that you’re right on time.

🎧 Listen, laugh, and celebrate with us — then share this episode with a friend who needs a little birthday pep talk.

✨ If you’re in North Jersey, stop by Luminous to experience beauty that feels like therapy.

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