Mark thought he had a solid first date—drinks turned into appetizers, the conversation flowed, and Alyssa was sharp, funny, and refreshingly direct. So when she stopped responding the very next day, he was caught completely off guard. What went wrong, and was the connection ever as mutual as it felt?

Ryan calls in wondering how a night that felt that good could end in radio silence. After drinks in Concord, he felt an easy connection with Brooke — confident, funny, and refreshingly real. They talked about burnout, work stress, and laughed about pretending to have life figured out. Ryan walked away thinking it was a solid hang. Brooke walked away… and never walked back.

Kevin calls us after a smooth cocktail date in Clairmont with Ionna (pronounced Yanna—Greek!), a woman he describes as stylish, thoughtful, and easy to be around. They bonded over travel, favorite foods, and their mutual love for Clairmont…so much so they both dream of moving there. Kevin left feeling like the night went really well… and then she went quiet. We unpack what might’ve happened.

Lauren called us about Chris after what felt like a promising drinks date in San Carlos. She said he was funny, relaxed, and easy to talk to, with great back-and-forth energy. They chatted about travel, favorite shows, and how they like to spend their weekends. The conversation flowed, the vibe was there, and Lauren left feeling hopeful. Then… nothing.

After dinner in Campbell, Alex thought things were going really well with Monica until she vanished. He told us she was confident, funny, and easy to talk to in that effortless way that feels rare these days. They swapped bad dating app stories, commiserated over dating burnout, and talked honestly about what they’re looking for now. Alex said it felt refreshing… so the silence afterward hit extra hard.

A cozy night in downtown Campbell: drinks, tacos, and a dog in a sweater. Eli thought he and Marissa had something real—shared laughs, shared snacks, and shared love for dogs and Trader Joe’s. But a few days later, she disappeared without a word. What went wrong?

Mark hit us up confused, and honestly, fair enough. His date with Julia checked all the boxes: drinks and dinner on the water in Point Richmond, a peaceful vibe, good conversation, no awkward moments. He said Julia was smart, calm, and easy to talk to, and that it felt nice to take things slow for once. He left thinking the date was solid. So why the ghost?

Kyle thought his Hayes Valley date with Natalie was a total win—great banter, travel chaos stories, dive-bar love, and matching “chaos goblin” siblings. But the next day? Nothing. Ghosted.

Adam thought he had finally cracked the code: a calm coffee date, genuine conversation, and a connection that felt effortless. Meeting Nicole in Berkeley, they bonded over childhood pets, quiet mornings, and the universal need for caffeine before becoming functional humans. Nothing flashy—just comfortable and real. But when Nicole stopped responding, Adam was left confused. This episode explores the disconnect between how a date feels and how it ends.

An online match leads to a movie date in San Jose—snacks, nonstop laughter, and instant chemistry. Everything felt right… until Kira ghosted Brandon. We break down the date and ask the question everyone’s thinking: what happened?