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Marginalized Melissa: Feeling Pushed Out by a New Coworker


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Episode: Marginalized Melissa: Feeling Pushed Out by a New Coworker

Link: https://thehrmediators.captivate.fm/episode/episode-7

What this episode’s about:

Marginalized Melissa is feeling pushed out by a new coworker and worried that this tension could cost her a promotion. In this episode, we explore practical strategies for managing workplace conflict, setting boundaries, and protecting your career while staying professional and keeping your growth opportunities on track.

Why listen:

Learn practical strategies for addressing workplace tension, advocating for yourself, and keeping your career on track even when challenges arise.

Key takeaways

  1. Feeling “pushed out” is often a signal of unmet needs, unclear expectations, and mismatched work styles - not necessarily intentional exclusion.
  2. When tension escalates, preparing for focused, respectful conversations with a coworker, manager, or HR can help shift the situation from emotional reactivity to problem-solving.
  3. Examining your assumptions, stress responses, and mindset can reduce anxiety and open up new options for navigating conflict without sacrificing your well-being or career goals.

Resources

  • Common Ground HR, LLC - This is the website for Karen's business, a consultancy focusing on Workplace Conflict Management, Mediation, Positive Employee Relations. Featured work also includes HR Programs: Design/Build/Update/Evaluate.
  • Book. Mindset: The New Psychology of Success - A top recommendation!
  • Designing Your Life Workbook - goes with the book Designing Your Life
  • Book: Designing Your Work Life
  • Book: Designing Your Life
  • Understanding Fight, Flight, Freeze, and the Feign Response | Psychology Today

Reach out for guidance: [email protected]

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About the show

Workplace conflict is inevitable, but with Karen & Kendra’s mix of HR savvy, mediation experience, psychology insights, and humor, you’ll learn to turn conflict into connection.

Credits

Music: Farben by MagnusMoone

Notes

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Hosts

Karen Gleason & Kendra Beseler

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Privacy note: These are inspired by real experiences, but we change all identifying details, adjust timelines, and blend similar accounts.

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