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What does it really mean to live “marked up” by God in a world that rewards blending in? We sit down with pastor, father, and author Paul Santos to unpack sanctification in plain language and everyday choices—from what we watch and where we go to who we let shape our thinking. Paul’s metaphor of tattoos becomes a powerful picture: each mark tells a story of God’s work, forming a collage of grace, growth, and resilience that sets you apart without turning you into a caricature.

We get practical about standards, temptation, and habits that lose their grip as your mind is renewed. Paul shares how perseverance carries you through the mid-journey dip, when showing up feels pointless and faith feels quiet. He challenges the common script: many of us claim we’d die for Christ one day, but won’t speak up or step out today. Drawing from Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, he argues that boldness isn’t bravado—it’s obedience rooted in who God is, not in what we hope he’ll do for us. We also reframe fear as magnification; whatever we focus on grows. Put God back in view, and courage follows.

Paul’s heart for youth shines as we talk identity, seeds of truth that mature over time, and creating safe spaces for confession and healing. His imagery of mercy and grace—rescue from the flames, then carried home—grounds the gospel in living color. If you’ve wrestled with church hurt, disappointment, or a “Sunday-only diet” of faith, this conversation offers a way back to daily rhythms with God, compassionate boundaries, and a community that builds rather than breaks.

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