Whilst we might not have followed tradition by moving in together before marriage, we are quite a traditional couple. It just happens that we have chosen a slightly different path to marriage which for both of us was mostly about making sure we were actually in a healthy relationship before committing.

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In this episode:

01:12 This week’s topic: Marriage [01:12]

04:46 In rural part of Zambia, young girls are married to older men [04:46]

05:06 Is G for or against marriage? [05:16]

08:29 People don’t go into marriage for the right reasons [08:29]

09:46 Men propose because they have to rather than they want to [9:46]

11:19 Is a blessing by the church necessary if you elope? [11:19]

12:48 Marriage is technically just a bit of paper, there should be a prior commitment [12:48]

18:21 People are still naive about the real meaning of marriage [18:21]

20:22 Some people change when they get married [20:22]

25:34 Family vs relatives after marriage [25:34]

31:13 Reddit [31:13]

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