In this episode of Our Inspired Adventure, Roxanne and James share the personal journeys that shaped their marriage long before they met. James reflects on the moment he wrote down the qualities he wanted in a soulmate — and realised he needed to become that person himself. Roxanne opens up about calling off a previous engagement after trusting her intuition, a decision that ultimately led her to James. Together they discuss how they entered their relationship with traditional ideas about masculine and feminine roles, and how those dynamics evolved through honest conversations, personal growth, and therapy. They also reflect on how becoming parents transformed their relationship and share the key lessons that helped them create a thriving, loving marriage. It’s a candid discussion about communication, accountability, loving unconditionally and the work it takes to build a strong and balanced partnership.