Learn your partner's Love Language with this link to 5 love languages  book https://www.amazon.com/dp/080241270X/ref=as_sl_pc_tf_til?tag=senatecleanin-20&linkCode=w00&linkId=fae2473199a964b709546e8364865970&creativeASIN=080241270X 1. understand you both are on the same team 2. Identify the enemy they can be friends family co-workers to name a few. 3. Your only as strong as your weakest link. 4. Communication is key to leveling up.  5. Never compare How you play your Game of marriage to anyone else.