Your spouse should be your closest relationship. And you should enjoy spending time with them. Too many marriages have allowed the routine drudgery of life to overwhelm them. As a result, couples become tired and jaded. It doesn't have to be that way.  Develop a mindset where you encourage fun. Disrupt routine. Fight predictability. Be mischievous. With some effort, you will find that time spent with your spouse is most rewarding.  Jerry & Tara talk about the wackiness in their marriage and how others find it contagious.