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Forget choir robes and checklists—real holiness is your marriage’s secret weapon. In this paradigm-shifting finale to our core values series, we unpack Value #6: Radical Holiness (Galatians 5:22-23) and why reflecting God’s character creates fiery, life-giving unions. Discover how misdefining holiness nearly destroyed one couple’s marriage… and how reclaiming it unleashes supernatural connection.

You’ll learn:
The holiness myth: Why “prayer/Bible time = holy” is incomplete (and dangerous!)
Eddie’s wake-up call: How he judged his wife’s gentleness as “unholy”—while missing his own joyless religiosity
The 9-Point Marriage Makeover: How love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control transform:

• Conflict → Connection
• Resentment → Repair
• Duty → Desire

We expose toxic traps:

• Measuring holiness by tasks (not transformed character)
• Overestimating your spirituality while underestimating your spouse’s
• Letting religious performance mask relational brokenness

Why holiness = ultimate intimacy hack:

1. Reality alignment: Closeness to God = closeness to true life (John 10:10)
2. Toxic-proofing: “Nothing poisonous grows” in holy ground
3. Conflict disarmament: Ownership > blame (James 5:16)
4. Addiction breaker: Relentless growth crowds out destruction

3 Game-Changing Reflections:

1. Does your “holiness meter” prioritize fruit (Gal 5) or just functions?
2. Where is God’s character (patience/kindness/gentleness) visibly growing in your marriage?
3. Are you pursuing self-transformation… or Spirit-dependent surrender?

Stop checking boxes. Start bearing fruit. Tune in to discover why holiness isn’t stiff—it’s the soil where fierce passion, radical honesty, and unbreakable faithfulness take root.

Take off the choir robe. Get holy.

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