In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell explore how the arrival of kids can flip the script on a marriage. What was once date nights and quiet mornings becomes diaper duty and sleepless nights—and not every couple is prepared for the shift.

Jamell doesn’t hold back as he shares his frustration with how some men react under parenting pressure, while also dropping some priceless wisdom his therapist gave him that helped reshape his approach to marriage and fatherhood.

This one’s for the parents, the soon-to-bes, and the couples navigating love in the middle of Lego land.

After a couple of drinks, Julius and Jamell get too honest about the fine line between open communication and stepping on landmines. Jamell may have talked himself into the doghouse, and Julius picks up on some serious energy from Jamell’s wife. From miscues to misreads, they explore how even the best intentions can backfire—and how a little liquid courage doesn’t always help.

In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell peel back the layers of one of the most essential—but fragile—pillars of any relationship: trust. What does trust really mean? How is it built, and how is it broken? For Julius, the absence of trust was the quiet force that ultimately unraveled his marriage. Together, they examine the ways trust is earned, protected, and sometimes lost—forever.

In this episode of Married Not Married, things get personal as Julius and Jamell unpack the complications of baby mama drama and explore the "Invisible String Theory"—the idea that people are spiritually or emotionally tied to someone for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.

Just when Julius thinks he knows all there is to know, Jamell drops a never-before-shared chapter of his love story that has the potential to shift everything. From drama to destiny, this one’s full of unexpected turns and heartfelt truth.

In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell unpack the programming of a single person vs. someone who's married—and the missteps that can happen when those wires get crossed. Has Julius fully slipped back into his single era? Jamell seems to think so, especially since their hangouts are starting to feel like a risk to Jamell’s marital peace. From last-minute plans to the freedom of doing whatever, whenever, the guys hilariously debate what’s fair game and what’s off-limits depending on your relationship status.

In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell dive deep into the delicate—and often fiery—power dynamics between your spouse and your immediate family. Who truly takes priority once you're married? Is it Mom? The wife? Do the lines blur when it comes to time, loyalty, and decision-making?

The guys debate whether it's a democracy or a dictatorship behind closed doors, and what happens when you're stuck in the middle. Tune in for real talk, honest laughs, and maybe even a little therapy.

In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell explore one of the biggest questions in relationships: What is real love, and how do you know when you’ve found it? Inspired by a Jay Shetty "On Purpose" podcast featuring Benny Blanco and Selena Gomez, Julius reflects on Blanco’s heartfelt take on love and how men should show up for their partners.

But Jamell isn’t sold—he argues that what sounds like true love might just be the Honeymoon Phase. The two go head-to-head, breaking down the difference between infatuation and lasting love while debating the real keys to a successful relationship.

Is love a fairytale, or is there a formula to make it last?

In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell welcome a guest who has lived through the highs and lows of marriage and divorce—only to find love again through a dating app. Could this success story change Julius’s skeptical stance on online dating? Will he take the bait or keep swiping left on the idea?

Join the lively debate as they dive into the realities of modern matchmaking, the risks and rewards of digital romance, and whether true love can really be found with just a tap.

In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell take a hard look at the modern dating scene, questioning if today’s dating apps are truly helping people find love or just fueling superficial connections. Jamell challenges Julius on his dating criteria—how much of an age gap is he really open to? And is he looking for love in the right places?

As they unpack the struggles of finding something real in a world of instant gratification, Jamell shares a piece of timeless wisdom he received in his twenties from an elder—advice that just might be the key to finding lasting love.

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In this episode of Married Not Married, Jamell gets real about the struggle men face with their ego when everything they’ve built suddenly crumbles. From having the dream job that supports the family to losing it all—home, cars, stability—he shares the emotional toll of feeling like a provider who can no longer provide.

But in the midst of the storm, an unexpected truth emerges: the strength of a partner’s love. Jamell opens up about the humbling experience of losing control and the surprising, unwavering support his wife showed him when he needed it most.

Join us as we explore resilience, pride, and the lessons learned when life forces you to start over.