How Aalyiah is not alive to be able to speak on her behalf as far as what happened between her and R. Kelly. She has never once spoken on what happened between her and R. Kelly and neither has her family. And to the family speaks up about the situation, then and only then will we know the truth about what happened in that situation. How young black girls are being forced to have to keep quiet about what has happened to them due to their families either taking settlements or the embarrassment in their reputations being ruined as far as their families concerned? How these victims do not get therapy for what happens to them and the abuse continues to happen to them? Why things need to change when it comes to crimes of abuse regardless of what type of abuse that is? The difference between people are not about the money when it comes to speaking out about their trauma and abuse and the ones who when the money stops they come out and start speaking out.