Are you mastered by your feelings or the master of your feelings? What about anger?  Do you have it under control or does it control you?  We need God's wisdom to rightly deal with our emotions and keep them from dominating and destroying us. Proverbs 14:29-30 Whoever is slow to anger has great understanding, but he who has a hasty temper exalts folly. A tranquil heart gives life to the flesh, but envy makes the bones rot.