Love Works

Mastering Marital Communication: A Guide to Fighting Fair


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Ever been in the heat of a marital squabble and paused to wonder, 'Will this even matter tomorrow?' That pause could be a game-changer. Through our podcast, we share intriguing tales from our own lives, such as our hilarious encounter with a fact-checked guide in Boston, and guide you on how to transform disagreements into opportunities for growth. The initial focus is on fighting fair, a skill that many couples struggle to master. We provide insights on how to identify whether the issue at hand is genuinely threatening your relationship or simply a minor annoyance.

Having cleared the air, we then delve into the heart of the matter - communication. Often, endless arguments stem from the inability to identify the real source of the disagreement. We share our own experiences and advice on how to bring clarity to your discussions, ensuring both parties are heard, and issues are accurately defined. We also offer tools to help you understand your emotions and the roots of your disagreements, along with the importance of setting ground rules to create a win-win outcome for both partners. 

Lastly, we shine a light on the importance of equal time and private fights. Exploring the critical role of active listening, we discuss the importance of understanding your partner's feelings and why it's a bad idea to let your conflicts spill over to family and friends. We also delve into the impact of family histories on our approaches to conversations and the necessity of keeping disagreements within the confines of your relationship. Our aim? To provide you with a roadmap to a healthier, fulfilling marital life. So, are you ready to take a journey with us?

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Love WorksBy Chris & Jennifer Duncan

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