Since the time of Jesus’ coming is unknown, we must watch and be ready. This parable concerning the ten bridesmaids again focusses on being ready for the Son of Man. Ten bridesmaids are waiting for the arrival of the bridegroom. The bridegroom is delayed, and the bridesmaids fall asleep. Suddenly, the impending arrival of the groom is announced. The bridesmaids awake, five being prepared with extra oil whilst the other five have run out of oil. This portion of the parable ends with the wise bridesmaids refusing to share their oil with the foolish ones.

Wedding processions usually took place at night and, therefore, required light. In traditional weddings of the time, messengers may have repeatedly announced the bridegroom’s coming, yet it could be delayed for hours while the bride’s relatives haggled over the value of the presents given to them. The failure of the five bridesmaids was not falling asleep, since all ten bridesmaids fell asleep. The issue is that some were not watchful enough to have sufficient oil - it was foreseeable that the bridegroom could be delayed. Five bridesmaids were prepared, the other five were not. It may seem unfair that the five prepared bridesmaids would not share their oil with the unprepared bridesmaids. If they had, each bridesmaid would not have had enough oil for their torches and the procession would have been ruined.

Disciples of Jesus should not lose heart if Jesus does not return as quickly as we expect or want him to. All of the bridesmaids would have been ready for the groom had he arrived when they expected. It is important for us to be patient, hopeful, and prepared so that we will be ready when Jesus returns. DR

Questions

Does it seem unfair that the wise bridesmaids would not share their oil with the foolish ones? Instead of having sufficient oil, how can you be ready for Christ’s return?

Prayer

Dear Heavenly Father, we thank-you that Jesus promised to return and restore all creation. Help us to wait patiently for his return and persevere in our faith. In Jesus' Name, Amen.