If the same problem keeps showing up in your life, it might not be “everyone else.” It might be you—and that’s actually good news.

What you’ll learn in this video:

• How to spot repeating patterns in your relationships, work, and habits.
  
• Why blaming others keeps you stuck, even when you feel justified.
  
• The “common denominator” idea and how to use it without self-hate.
  
• What radical responsibility looks like in real life.
  
• A simple thought experiment to uncover your role and change the pattern.
  

I share a story about someone who was always complaining about bad drivers—until I saw how they actually drove. That moment connects to something bigger: when the same friction keeps happening around you, it’s worth checking the mirror before you check the window. This isn’t about beating yourself up or letting other people off the hook. It’s about finding the one place you have real control—your choices—and using that to finally change what keeps derailing you.

Real progress starts the day you stop waiting on other people to fix your life.

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