In the movie, Meatballs, Bill Murray is coaching a summer camp softball team. Just prior to the final game between his team of nerds and the super-jocks, Bill gives his team a pep talk, reminding them that whether they win or lose, it just doesn't matter. What does matter is showing up and doing the best you can. What does matter is stepping up to the plate and taking your best shot. What does matter is not letting your fear define you.