In this deeply personal solo episode, Brandon shares the story of losing his father at 21 and how the instinct to “stay busy” shaped his journey through grief, trauma, and eventual burnout.

While busyness can feel like strength, Brandon explores why distraction isn’t the same as healing — and how unprocessed grief can quietly fuel years of emotional exhaustion. Speaking from both lived experience and nearly two decades in Fire/EMS, he reflects on:

• Why we instinctively stay busy in times of trauma and grief
• The hidden costs of ignoring grief and pushing forward too quickly
• How unresolved pain contributes to burnout, especially for first responders
• Healthier ways to process grief, reconnect, and build resilience

This episode isn’t just Brandon’s story — it’s a universal reminder that true healing comes from stillness, connection, and intentional reflection, not from endless busyness.

If you’ve faced loss, trauma, or burnout, this conversation will give you perspective, validation, and hope.

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