In this episode, I recount a personal story about a troubling encounter with a man named Alpha during my college years. The narrative explores themes of betrayal, self-worth, and the lessons learned from a painful experience. I reflect on the emotional turmoil caused by discovering Alpha's girlfriend while we were intimate and how this incident shaped my views on relationships and boundaries. Throughout the conversation, I emphasize the importance of honesty, self-respect, and the need to protect oneself from emotional harm. The episode serves as a candid exploration of the complexities of dating and the impact of past traumas on present relationships.

Sound Bites

"Men are whores, treat them as such."

"This situation set the basis for why I don't do sleepovers."

"I was just getting a lot of attention that summer."

"I never want to be your side chick."

"Listen to your heart and not in the cliché way."

"I don't want chaos. I don't want drama."

"You are the prize."

"I learned to never let nobody treat me like that again."

"You need to practice discernment."

"Don't let your lust for somebody make you stupid."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Story

02:46 The Encounter with Alpha

05:47 The Revelation of a Girlfriend

08:52 The Aftermath and Reflection

12:00 Lessons Learned from the Experience

14:47 The Impact of Trauma on Relationships

17:56 Moving Forward and Setting Boundaries

20:53 The Role of Honesty in Relationships

23:47 Final Thoughts and Conclusion