Red flags on females are easy to spot, you know what to do men. Nurturing? Gentle? Graceful? Thankful? Helpful? Caring? Loving? Receptive? Submissive? Cook? Clean? Bake? Sew? Don't gossip? Not jealous? Honest? Loyal? Morals? Healthy? Empathetic? Trusting? Trustworthy? (The last two are different)