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Keywords

dreams, ambitions, reflections, cultural perspectives, personal growth, parenting, aspirations, self-discovery, mental health, life goals

Summary

This conversation delves into the multifaceted nature of dreams, exploring how they reflect our realities, ambitions, and cultural influences. The speakers share personal anecdotes about their dreams, both from childhood and adulthood, and discuss the impact of societal expectations and parenting on the aspirations of the younger generation. They emphasize the importance of self-discovery and the need to nurture dreams in a world that often prioritizes practicality over passion.

Takeaways

Dreams can be a reflection of our current life situations.

Facing fears can change the nature of our dreams.

Cultural backgrounds influence how children perceive their dreams.

Many adults lose sight of their dreams due to societal pressures.

Boredom can lead to creativity and dreaming.

Parental influence plays a significant role in shaping children's ambitions.

Achieving dreams can lead to greater motivation for future goals.

It's important to create a safe space for children to explore their dreams.

Dreams can evolve over time based on life experiences.

Finding balance between work and passion is crucial for happiness.

Titles

The Dreamscape: Understanding Our Nightly Journeys

Reflections of Reality: What Our Dreams Reveal

Sound bites

"Boredom is key to dreaming big."

"I can have a house in Taitung city."

"I want to be a president."

Chapters

00:00 Exploring the Nature of Dreams

09:33 Dreams as Reflections of Reality

19:40 Cultural Perspectives on Dreams and Ambitions

29:20 Pursuing Dreams in Adulthood

🌙 誰扼殺了你孩子的夢想？

Elly 和 Marc 從「做的夢」聊到「人生的夢」。
我們都記得，小時候的我們特別會做夢——
白天做白日夢、晚上做奇怪的夢，
那些夢慢慢變成「夢想」，
而夢想又成了推動我們前進的力量與勇氣。

聊著聊著，我們突然都安靜下來。
因為我們想到了一個殘酷的問題：

— 到底是誰，扼殺了孩子的夢想？

很多家長都以為孩子沒有夢想。
其實不是沒有，而是沒有「空間」讓夢長大。

Marc 跟我都一致認為，
創造力的前提是：給孩子時間與空間。
換句白話——
讓孩子偶爾覺得「無聊」。

但現在呢？

手機、平板、電腦、
補習班、才藝課、安親班、作業……
孩子的生活被塞得滿滿的。

孩子根本沒有機會停下來。
沒有機會看看窗外。
沒有機會發呆。
沒有機會 just think。
更沒有機會去問自己：
“我喜歡什麼？”
“我夢想什麼？”

如果沒有留白，哪來創意？
如果沒有安靜，哪來夢想？
如果沒有無聊，哪來思考？

真正扼殺夢想的，
不是孩子不努力，
不是孩子沒天分，
而是這個世界，不再允許孩子「空著」。