Modern Mavericks with Janel Abrahami

MENTORED: Breaking Free From External Validation and Standing in Your Worth, with Bahija Humphrey


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I can already tell you— this a Lunch Break episode I will be recommending for-ev-er. I don’t know a single career-minded friend who doesn’t have a complicated relationship with external validation. The gold stars, the praise, the admiration for doing an impressive job— it’s addicting. And it stems from a disconnection from your own self-worth.


In this episode, Executive Leadership coach Bahija Humphrey helps you step into your potential and lead with confidence, exploring:


  • 6 specific tips to build your inner confidence & get after your big goals
  • How to separate your “healthy hustle” from the pitfalls of external validation
  • How to separate your goals from others’ expectations & find YOUR purpose
  • When, exactly, can external validation be HELPFUL for us?

  • PLUS: Bahija’s own “reckoning” story as an Afghan woman raised in the West, and how she connected with her purpose after feeling disallusoned from gold-star chasing her way to the top. 


    If you're a first-gen kid, an oldest sibling, a former gold-star child, or a “promising young woman,” this episode is a must-listen. Join us as we explore the path to healing your soul, embracing your uniqueness, and building the unshakable confidence to pursue your dreams on your terms.


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    Claim Your Seat, a signature program for high achieving women leaders: https://bahijahumphrey.com/claim-your-seat/

    How to Lead Like a F*cking Boss, a free MasterClass: https://courses.bahijahumphrey.com/masterclass


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    Modern Mavericks with Janel AbrahamiBy Janel Abrahami