We, like all of history and herstory, have a disease called separation or Devdas syndrome that maintains entropy in the Universe. We love to sing kesariya baalam yearning for our beloved, and people love to bask in the yearning, getting all nostalgic and teary-eyed than actually be able to keep love intact within our already existing life and marriage. Promiscuity and all kinds of things are practiced to maintain the yearning so that when the partners come together they feel something that meets their existential needs. Needs and wants have been called desires and spiritualists have been advising to go beyond desires while love is professed as an essential requirement in maintaining health of life in unconditional form. The heart keeps yearning for what is already inside their body wowering life if only they paid attention to what their heart is saying in conjunction with their lungs to power the body of their life. The whole Ramayana and Mahabharata would not happen if Rama and Krishna kept their love sacred with Sita and Radha. Time to reevaluate your priorities!