Detachment but maintain relations. Limit time with family to "quality time" with family, such as dinners. Be friends with everyone, and yet make your own decisions. Don’t be afraid to change your mind if it means protecting your own decisions. Don’t get lethargic and waste time when with others when you don't want to. Respect your own time and create demand. It's a balance.

You cannot control others, only yourself and your actions / policies. For others, you can only line up incentives (even with closest people). Have self-respect.  

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