In a world where childhood is drastically different (thanks to mobile devices and social media) how can parents build strong connections with tweens and teens? How can we cultivate healthy relationships and boost their self-confidence when external validation holds so much power?

Jessica Speer, our insightful guest, understands the developmental growing pains facing adolescents perhaps better than anyone. As an author and former friendship mentor for middle schoolers, she’s extensively studied this transitional life stage's psychology and social dynamics.

In our conversation, Jessica reveals the root causes of why grades 6-8 can profoundly test one’s confidence. You’ll discover the “friendship truths” essential for students to internalize and why certain bonds strengthen while others rupture. We discuss the risky allure of perceived popularity and how parents can equip kids with perspective.

Tune in and learn simple but sage phrases to employ when children need empathy rather than advice. This episode is brimming with science-backed insights and practical wisdom to smoothly guide your child’s journey through the inherently messy middle school years.

“Our kids know when we’re triggered and we go off. And then we’re not really there for them. And the worst-case scenario is as they get older, they stop coming to us. Because they don’t want to have that effect on us.” — Jessica Speer

In this episode, you will learn:

• Simple ways to have meaningful conversations with your tween or teen 
• The words that guarantee your child feels heard during tough talks (and no, they're not "I understand") 
• Helpful tips for empathizing with your kid's friendship frustrations, even when you don't fully comprehend social media drama 
• The formula to ground yourself before emotionally charged conversations 
• How to embrace your child's quest for identity without judgment 
• How to teach your tween resilience without criticism 
• Before you hand your kid a smartphone, ask yourself these vital questions 
• How less advice and more listening can deepen trust with your tween or teen (75% of parents don't realize this) 

Resources:

• The Phone Book by Jessica Speer
• BFF or NRF (Not Really Friends)?

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