No plan survives contact.

Can you adapt? Are you flexible or do you need constant direction?

Mike Tyson said no plan survives a punch in the face. 

"In this way you must understand how laughable it is to say, 'Tell me what to do!' What advice could I possibly give? No, a far better request is, 'Train my mind to adapt to any circumstance.' .... In this way, if circumstances take you off script... you won't be desperate for a new prompting." - Epictetus

Oh, and make your God damned bed.

If you change your story, you can change your life.