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This episode of Threads of Enlightenment features a powerful discussion where `drug addiction` is defined as slow suicide, emphasizing its destructive nature. The speaker shares their personal experience with `substance abuse` and achieving 32 years of sobriety, offering valuable `life advice` for those seeking `recovery`. This conversation highlights the journey towards a `sober life` and the importance of taking steps to `get sober`. 🚀
Thomas J. LaGrave, Jr., is a bestselling author, licensed clinical social worker, and former Navy SEAL Hospital Corpsman with over 35 years of experience working with more than 3,000 young people. Known for his raw, real approach to adolescent mental health, Tom blends lived experience with clinical expertise to help teens—and the adults who care for them—navigate depression, addiction, masculinity, and emotional intelligence in a tech-saturated world.
In this episode I engages in a profound conversation with Thomas J. LaGrave, Jr., who shares his journey from military service to addiction and recovery. Thomas discusses the impact of his family dynamics, the challenges he faced during his military career, and the eventual downfall due to addiction. He emphasizes the importance of addressing mental health and suicide, particularly among youth, and advocates for giving back to the community. The conversation culminates in a heartfelt message to both young people and their parents, urging them to communicate and support one another.
Chapters
00:00 The Value of Time and Journey
02:42 Understanding Service to Mankind
05:18 Family Dynamics and Early Influences
07:50 Navigating Adolescence and Military Life
10:17 The Challenge of Becoming a Navy SEAL
12:53 The Downward Spiral of Addiction
16:02 The Devastation of Loss and Recovery
18:26 Confronting Suicidal Thoughts
21:02 The Importance of Connection
25:06 Impacting Youth and Advocacy
30:27 A Call to Action for Adults
35:21 ThreadsOfEnlightenment_Outro_shortTail.mp4
Takeaways
Time is a precious resource that should be valued.
Life is a journey that shapes who we become.
Young people have the power to influence adults positively.
Family dynamics play a crucial role in personal development.
Military training can be both physically and mentally transformative.
Addiction can lead to a loss of identity and purpose.
Suicide rates among youth and veterans are alarmingly high.
It's essential to reach out for help when struggling with mental health.
Advocacy for youth is vital in today's society.
Communication between parents and children is key to understanding.
Sound bites
"How do you serve mankind?"
"Do as I say, not as I do."
"I see you, I hear you."
I strongly encourage everyone to follow him, and be transformed by his insights.
Everyone has a story, and this is his story.
Below is a list of the sites that house his works.
https://thomasjlagravejr.com/
https://www.facebook.com/thomasjlagravejr/
https://www.instagram.com/thomasjlagravejr/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/tjlagravejr/
https://www.youtube.com/@thomasjlagravejr
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By Ken PrimusThis episode of Threads of Enlightenment features a powerful discussion where `drug addiction` is defined as slow suicide, emphasizing its destructive nature. The speaker shares their personal experience with `substance abuse` and achieving 32 years of sobriety, offering valuable `life advice` for those seeking `recovery`. This conversation highlights the journey towards a `sober life` and the importance of taking steps to `get sober`. 🚀
Thomas J. LaGrave, Jr., is a bestselling author, licensed clinical social worker, and former Navy SEAL Hospital Corpsman with over 35 years of experience working with more than 3,000 young people. Known for his raw, real approach to adolescent mental health, Tom blends lived experience with clinical expertise to help teens—and the adults who care for them—navigate depression, addiction, masculinity, and emotional intelligence in a tech-saturated world.
In this episode I engages in a profound conversation with Thomas J. LaGrave, Jr., who shares his journey from military service to addiction and recovery. Thomas discusses the impact of his family dynamics, the challenges he faced during his military career, and the eventual downfall due to addiction. He emphasizes the importance of addressing mental health and suicide, particularly among youth, and advocates for giving back to the community. The conversation culminates in a heartfelt message to both young people and their parents, urging them to communicate and support one another.
Chapters
00:00 The Value of Time and Journey
02:42 Understanding Service to Mankind
05:18 Family Dynamics and Early Influences
07:50 Navigating Adolescence and Military Life
10:17 The Challenge of Becoming a Navy SEAL
12:53 The Downward Spiral of Addiction
16:02 The Devastation of Loss and Recovery
18:26 Confronting Suicidal Thoughts
21:02 The Importance of Connection
25:06 Impacting Youth and Advocacy
30:27 A Call to Action for Adults
35:21 ThreadsOfEnlightenment_Outro_shortTail.mp4
Takeaways
Time is a precious resource that should be valued.
Life is a journey that shapes who we become.
Young people have the power to influence adults positively.
Family dynamics play a crucial role in personal development.
Military training can be both physically and mentally transformative.
Addiction can lead to a loss of identity and purpose.
Suicide rates among youth and veterans are alarmingly high.
It's essential to reach out for help when struggling with mental health.
Advocacy for youth is vital in today's society.
Communication between parents and children is key to understanding.
Sound bites
"How do you serve mankind?"
"Do as I say, not as I do."
"I see you, I hear you."
I strongly encourage everyone to follow him, and be transformed by his insights.
Everyone has a story, and this is his story.
Below is a list of the sites that house his works.
https://thomasjlagravejr.com/
https://www.facebook.com/thomasjlagravejr/
https://www.instagram.com/thomasjlagravejr/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/tjlagravejr/
https://www.youtube.com/@thomasjlagravejr
👍Thank you for supporting this podcast with a small monthly donation to help sustain future episodes.
https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/threads-of-enlighte/support
https://donate.stripe.com/5kAaG4crsbefesM7ss
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/kenprimus10
https://donate.stripe.com/5kAaG4crsbefesM7ss
Affiliate Center Disclaimer:
This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.
Get vidIQ to grow your channel faster! 🚀
https://vidiq.com/ThreadsofEnlight
Amazon:
https://amzn.to/4s8rO6s
🔹Playlist:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLn7c3i_nzZXBAM6xVBQA3_CjUVYPJZmQj
🔵Shop at our store
https://threads-of-enlightenment.myspreadshop.com/