This week Jess & Jack respond to a queer listener who wants to know in what order it’s best to come out: friends, then family, or vice-versa.

We talk about how there’s no one-size-fits-all order to

coming out, the pros and cons of dipping a toe in the water vs. jumping in the deep end, and the family/friend social dynamics involved in coming out.

We also talk about the importance of taking care of your emotional and mental health through the process, including establishing safety nets for yourself, if you can.

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