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What do you do when one person wants sex more than the other? This week on Slut in Training, we're joined by Nicholas Berry, a gay millennial psychotherapist and sex & relationship coach, to talk about one of the most common relationship struggles: mismatched libido.
From communication and intimacy to manscaping, kinks, confidence, and how to actually ask for what you want, this episode is equal parts funny, honest, and wildly useful. We get into how to handle different libido styles, what keeps couples feeling disconnected, and the simple but uncomfortable truth: most people were never taught how to talk about sex.
We also cover:
- How to express your needs in a relationship
- Ways to spice things up when intimacy feels stale
- Manscaping debates, body image, and attraction
- Wild hookup stories and what they teach us
- Relationship advice for anyone who feels like they have no idea what they’re doing
If you’re navigating love, sex, communication, or long-term relationship dynamics—press play.
Timestamps - Episode Highlights
0:00 – Welcome to the show: Slutty word of the episode – Lucky Pierre
3:44 – Introducing Nicholas Berry – the gay millennial psychotherapist and sex and
relationship coach
6:27 – Therapy themes from communication to libido styles – how to deal with a mixed
libido relationship
7:09 – The spectrum from asexual partners to more sexual partners that are not having
their needs met
7:42 – Being raised by a mom and how she didn’t ask or expect her needs to be met
8:20 – How the sex talk started for Nicholas in a Walden Books store
9:22 – How to deal with different libido styles starts with expressing how you are feeling
and feeling safe to do that
11:37 – Manscaping advice needed! Dolphin smooth versus a Chewbacca bush
14:14 – Green light - a pattern chest piece and skin tone perfect combination
16:37 – Try a manscaping gift card for your husband or have them watch Queer Eye for
the Straight Guy!
17:12 – Kinky things to help spice up a relationship – normalizing what he learned in his
sexual career to help couples
18:38 – Craziest places Nick had sex!
20:48 – The low down in Penis size – long and skinny to beer can
26:32 – Advice you would give your younger self about relationships and intimacy – it’s
ok to have no idea what you are doing and its ok to walk away!
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Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania Ross
Produced by: Missy Greenberg
Edited by: Charles E. Becker
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Merch: www.notfromheremedia.com
TikTok: @notfromheremedia
Resources and mentions:
Follow Nickolas Berry – Instagram @thegaymillennialtherapist
Psychology Today - link to
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/nicholas-berry-los-angeles-ca/412054
https://www.nicholasberrypsychotherapy.com
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What do you do when one person wants sex more than the other? This week on Slut in Training, we're joined by Nicholas Berry, a gay millennial psychotherapist and sex & relationship coach, to talk about one of the most common relationship struggles: mismatched libido.
From communication and intimacy to manscaping, kinks, confidence, and how to actually ask for what you want, this episode is equal parts funny, honest, and wildly useful. We get into how to handle different libido styles, what keeps couples feeling disconnected, and the simple but uncomfortable truth: most people were never taught how to talk about sex.
We also cover:
- How to express your needs in a relationship
- Ways to spice things up when intimacy feels stale
- Manscaping debates, body image, and attraction
- Wild hookup stories and what they teach us
- Relationship advice for anyone who feels like they have no idea what they’re doing
If you’re navigating love, sex, communication, or long-term relationship dynamics—press play.
Timestamps - Episode Highlights
0:00 – Welcome to the show: Slutty word of the episode – Lucky Pierre
3:44 – Introducing Nicholas Berry – the gay millennial psychotherapist and sex and
relationship coach
6:27 – Therapy themes from communication to libido styles – how to deal with a mixed
libido relationship
7:09 – The spectrum from asexual partners to more sexual partners that are not having
their needs met
7:42 – Being raised by a mom and how she didn’t ask or expect her needs to be met
8:20 – How the sex talk started for Nicholas in a Walden Books store
9:22 – How to deal with different libido styles starts with expressing how you are feeling
and feeling safe to do that
11:37 – Manscaping advice needed! Dolphin smooth versus a Chewbacca bush
14:14 – Green light - a pattern chest piece and skin tone perfect combination
16:37 – Try a manscaping gift card for your husband or have them watch Queer Eye for
the Straight Guy!
17:12 – Kinky things to help spice up a relationship – normalizing what he learned in his
sexual career to help couples
18:38 – Craziest places Nick had sex!
20:48 – The low down in Penis size – long and skinny to beer can
26:32 – Advice you would give your younger self about relationships and intimacy – it’s
ok to have no idea what you are doing and its ok to walk away!
Slut in Training: Saving One Bedroom at a Time.
Join us, learn, and listen about sexual health, couples, women, female issues, dating, viral skincare, and improving sexual confidence.
+ Subscribe for bi-monthly episodes.
+ Follow the show so you don't miss episodes on YouTube, Apple, and Spotify.
Hosted by: Missy Greenberg, Jordan Carlson & Tania Ross
Produced by: Missy Greenberg
Edited by: Charles E. Becker
Follow on:
IG: @thenotfromheremedia
Merch: www.notfromheremedia.com
TikTok: @notfromheremedia
Resources and mentions:
Follow Nickolas Berry – Instagram @thegaymillennialtherapist
Psychology Today - link to
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/nicholas-berry-los-angeles-ca/412054
https://www.nicholasberrypsychotherapy.com
Support the show