Have you ever noticed when you meet someone for the first time, or when you haven't seen a person in a long time, at some point the conversation always heads towards work? Why is that? Why do we care so much? Is what we do for a living who we really are? The questions we habitually ask seem to point to that. Or is it all a case of mistaken identity, a BS way of defining who we are and who others are that often makes us feel like crap? I think so and here's why...