November 11, 2019

Misunderstanding of Conflict & Commitment | Rohini Ross & Jason Shiers

44 minutes

A great conversation with Rohini Ross on the misunderstanding of conflict & commitment in relationships, discussing the common misunderstandings and how we try to resolve them, and seeing our true nature, and how relationships really work when we are not caught up in our thinking of how they should be.

How commitment really works

Being one foot out of the door

We can only see whats happening at the time from our current level of understanding

Fulfilling the role of the absent parent

Meeting childhood needs

Trying to meet needs externally

The experience of well-being independent of our circumstances

Habitual conditioning

Why changing the external doesn’t work

Repetitive Power Struggles

Looking to our natural state

Its not about the past anymore

Understanding where suffering comes from

Dropping into the present

Why some thoughts are more sticky

Gathering Evidence

The honeymoon period is a gift!

Taking others suffering personally

Showing compassion is transformative

How grounding defuses volatility

Having less judgement of our experience

How we collect evidence to make thoughts look real

Seeing where your experience comes from is the key

Putting the oxygen mask on yourself first

How the story of me looks real

The infinite intelligence behind fresh thought

How people naturally get clear perspectives

Can we be in a relationship with anyone

Impersonal Love vs Personal Love

Connection with self is the ultimate goal

When the nice feeling comes

Curiosity and presence

How the dominos fall in all areas of life

Why personality types are not relevant

Getting caught up is learning

Rohini Ross is passionate about helping people wake up to their true nature. She is a psychotherapist, a transformative coach, and author of Marriage (The Soul-Centered Series Book 1). She is the founder of The Soul-Centered Series: Psychology, Spirituality, and the Teachings of Sydney Banks that launches in Santa Monica, CA October. She has an international coaching practice helping individuals, couples, and professionals embrace all of who they are so they can experience greater levels of well-being, resiliency, and success. You can find Rohini at her website here

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