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Modern Masculinity: What does it mean?


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In this episode of More In Common, hosts Gerren Taylor and Keith Richardson sit down with sociologist and systems-change strategist Nicholas Miller to explore the evolving meaning of masculinity in today’s world.

Using public conversations around modern masculinity—including ideas popularized by Scott Galloway—as a starting point, the group examines how masculinity has always been shaped by economic systems, social expectations, and access to opportunity. They discuss why narratives around rugged individualism, dominance, and self-reliance no longer serve most men—and never truly served everyone equally.

The conversation addresses the growing male loneliness crisis, the misdirection of resentment toward women and immigrants, and why redefining masculinity isn’t about blame—but about reconnection. Rather than offering a single definition, the episode makes space for multiple masculinities rooted in care, accountability, protection, and community.

This episode launches a multi-part series exploring masculinity, identity, and what it means to belong in a rapidly changing world.

 

Key Takeaways
  • Masculinity is socially constructed, not biologically fixed

  • There has never been one “correct” way to be a man

  • Economic systems shape identity more than we admit

  • Loneliness is a structural issue, not a personal failure

  • Blame narratives distract from systemic causes

  • Protection, care, and accountability are undervalued masculine traits

  • Redefining masculinity is essential for healthier relationships and communities

    Chapter Timestamps

    00:00 – Why Masculinity Is Having a Moment

    02:45 – What People Mean When They Say “Masculinity Is Broken”
    06:10 – Masculinity as a Social and Economic Construction
    10:55 – Rugged Individualism: Who It Served and Who It Didn’t
    15:30 – The Male Loneliness Epidemic
    19:40 – Why Resentment Gets Misplaced
    24:10 – Patriarchy, Feminism, and Misunderstanding Power
    28:50 – Multiple Masculinities Across Race and Class
    33:20 – Protection vs. Domination
    38:10 – Redefining Masculinity Through Connection
    42:30 – Why This Conversation Is Just Beginning

    About the Guest

    Nicholas Miller is a tenured sociology professor at Sacramento City College, founder of multiple workforce pipeline programs, and co-founder of nationally recognized initiatives supporting justice-impacted students. He is also the founder of Conduits for Change, partnering with organizations to build equity-driven cultures and sustainable community impact.

     

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