Episode 1 of Mom Math is about the hidden costs of motherhood: the time tax, the mental load, the invisible labor. But before we keep breaking down the numbers, I want to tell you why this series exists in the first place.
I created Mom Math because I’m tired.
Tired of watching mothers shrink themselves to fit a society that doesn’t nurture, promote, or truly care for them, yet still expects us to do everything. Tired of the constant adjusting. The constant reshaping. The quiet expectation that we will always be the ones to bend.
We are forever being asked to shift toward what the world wants instead of what we need.In our careers.In our relationships with others—and with ourselves.In how we raise children.In how we build businesses or choose not to.In whether we dare to want more, or dare to want less.
And too often, the choice is never us.
Mom Math exists because I want mothers to choose themselves: not just today, but for the long term.
Because I genuinely believe the world is better when women lead. And mothers? We’re already doing the work. We’re problem-solvers, strategists, caregivers, builders, and visionaries. We run households, manage logistics, carry emotional labor, and still show up creatively, professionally, and communally.
Motherhood isn’t one thing.It isn’t one path.It isn’t one story.
Mothers take shape in so many ways—through birth, by choice, as aunties, cousins, caregivers, community builders, even pet moms. It is a vast, layered experience. And it deserves systems that reflect that complexity instead of punishing it.
And yes, I believe it’s past time we start making money while mothering.
Mom Math is about naming the real costs we carry and then learning how to flip the equation. Not by hustling harder or sacrificing more, but by building lives, careers, and systems that actually support us.
I’m not sharing this from a place of having it all figured out. I don’t. But I am somewhere I once only dreamed of. I own multiple businesses. I’ve worked with world-class brands. I’ve built community. And I’m actively creating a legacy for my family while still learning how to protect my peace, my time, and my energy.
I know I’m not alone in wanting that. I know other women and mothers want more than survival. We want sustainability. We want abundance. We want options. We want lives that don’t require us to disappear in order to function.
Mom Math is me navigating this in real time and inviting you to do it alongside me.
Not perfectly.Not quietly.But intentionally.
If this resonates, you’re in the right place.
If you haven’t listened yet, Episode 1 of Mom Math is live now. I break down the hidden costs of motherhood: the time tax, the mental load, and the invisible labor we’ve been carrying without language for it. You can watch the full episode on YouTube or listen right here
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