Three months into my parenting journey, I'm grappling with the concept of "mom tax" - the often unacknowledged work and career sacrifices that disproportionately affect mothers. This reflection explores how motherhood reshapes identity, career trajectories, and daily routines while acknowledging the privilege of parental leave that many don't have.

• The statistics show mothers typically do more parenting work, even with supportive partners
• Career pauses for mothers often occur while partners continue professional advancement
• Simple routines like sharing meals together become logistically complex with a newborn
• Attempting to work during baby's nap time creates feelings of guilt and perceived neglect
• Many mothers don't openly discuss their frustrations with motherhood due to societal expectations
• Honest conversations about parenting challenges are essential for maternal mental health
• The experience varies greatly depending on support systems and cultural contexts

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